Cupid's Playbook

When you are over thirty, you need to start looking for single people in different places than when you were in your twenties. Finding love in mid-life is different than finding love when we were younger. Remember, when you were young and everywhere you looked there were single people. You went to a party and there were single people in droves. Going to a bar, there were single people on every bar stool. During high school and college, almost everyone on campus was single. You didn’t need to make much of an effort because available single people were all around you. As more and more of your friends got married, there were less single parties to go to on the weekends. The bar crowd started attracting the unattractive. On a day-to-day basis, you were no longer in school surrounded by like-minded singles. Did the well of singles dry up? Absolutely not!

Let’s think about this for a minute. If you line up 100 people, chances are, almost half of these people are going to be single. So there is a huge “well” of available singles. Keep this in mind because almost anywhere you go and whatever you are doing there is a strong possibility that you could meet “the one” if that’s where your focus is.